Love is am amazing feeling. But so many of us seek it out for all the wrong reasons. Recently someone told me their relationship was complicated which made me do a lot of thinking and this is what I came up with. Why??? Why is your relationship complicated, because Real Love is not complicated. It is simple and easy and wonderful. Life can be complicated but Love should never be complicated. These are some of my opinions on Love:
~ You can't Love anyone else if you don't first Love yourself. - you may seek the love of others thinking that it will fill your heart with love but you will attract the wrong type of people. The people you attract will walk all over you like a doormat and they will take advantage of your lack of self esteem. Remember this, You were created in God's image so what isn't to Love. Find a way to Love yourself and the rest will come.
~ Having a baby doesn't mean you will have someone who will always love you. - Have you ever met a teenage girl before? Does she love her parent's? If she does she's not from this planet. The child will come around eventually but will you live long enough to see it? Some folks don't because they got pregnant to have someone to love them and it turned into a disaster because they never loved themselves. Again, if you don't love yourself you can't really love anyone else.
~ Love will never hold you down. - A true love will want your wings to grow and expand and for you to fly and become all that you can. You may hold yourself down and not let yourself fly but a true love will let you go knowing you will come back to them.
Below is the scripture from 1 Corinthians 13:4-8. Read this scripture! Read it over and over until you understand it. This is what true love is all about.